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Oceanfront connection, relaxation, and a deep reset where the only sound is the surf and each other.
United by Design Retreats
This Isn’t Just a Getaway. It’s a Reset for Your Marriage.
Step away from the noise of everyday life and immerse yourselves in an experience designed to strengthen your connection, deepen your communication, and bring your relationship back to life.
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The Experience
Not a vacation. Not therapy. A reset that actually moves the needle.
This is not a vacation where you ignore your problems. This is not therapy in a cold office. This is a guided experience where couples grow, connect, and have fun together.
You’ll be surrounded by couples who are committed to growth, guided through powerful workshops, and given space to reconnect — without the distractions of daily life.
The blend
What every retreat is built on.
- 01Growth
- 02Adventure
- 03Connection
- 04Fun
What you can expect
A few days. A different marriage.
High-level by design. We’re not handing you a curriculum — we’re giving you a transformation. Here’s a glimpse of the rhythm of a United by Design retreat.
Guided Relationship Workshops
Learn how to communicate, reconnect, and strengthen your partnership.
Intentional Connection Time
Structured time to have real conversations and rebuild closeness.
Adventure & Shared Experiences
Activities designed to create memories and bring you closer together.
High-Level Environment
Be around couples who are serious about growth, not just getting by.
Time to Reset
Step away from stress, work, and routine to gain clarity and direction.
Where we go
Retreat Destinations Designed to Inspire
Every destination is chosen for the way it changes you. The view matters. The pace matters. The contrast to your everyday life matters.
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Desert Luxury
Arizona
Sonoran desert luxury at golden hour. Quiet, grounding, and clarifying — exactly what most couples don’t even know they need.
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Adventure
South America
Jungle, mountain, and culture. For the couples who feel most alive when the world feels bigger than their problems.
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Coming Soon
More to Come
We’re scouting destinations across Europe, Mexico, and the Caribbean for future retreats. Join the interest list to be the first to know.
Locations and dates are announced first to the interest list. Add yourselves below.
Who this is for
You’ll feel at home if…
- Couples who feel disconnected and want to rebuild
- Couples who are doing okay and want more
- Business owners and high performers pulled in different directions
- Couples ready to invest in their relationship
- Couples willing to grow, not blame
Who this is not for
We’re probably not the right fit if…
- Couples unwilling to take ownership
- Couples looking for a quick fix
- Couples not open to growth or honest conversations
We’re selective on purpose. The room only works when everyone in it is willing to do the work.
Why retreats work
Environment changes everything.
When you remove distractions and surround yourselves with intention, growth accelerates. The conversations you’ve been avoiding for months happen naturally. The connection you’ve been chasing becomes the default state. You leave different than you came — because you were in a place designed to make that possible.
Voices from the room
What couples will say after a retreat.
Our retreat program is launching soon. These are the kinds of stories we’re building toward — and the kinds of stories we’ll share here from real couples once retreats begin.
“We came tired and disconnected. We left aligned, in love, and clearer than we’ve been in years. The environment did half the work.”
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“It wasn’t therapy. It wasn’t a vacation. It was something we didn’t even know existed — and exactly what our marriage needed.”
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“Being surrounded by other couples who actually care about growth changed everything. We came home with a new playbook for us.”
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Take the next step
Your Relationship Deserves More Than ‘Someday.’
If you’ve been saying “we need to work on us,” this is where you do it. Add yourselves to the interest list and we’ll be in touch the moment applications open.
Interest list
Be the first couple we call.
Retreats are intimate by design and the rooms fill fast. Tell us where you’d most want to go and what you most want to work on, and we’ll reach out as soon as the right retreat opens up.
What happens next
- 1. We get your details. Same day, into our private list.
- 2. You hear first. Dates, locations, and pricing land in your inbox before they go public.
- 3. We have a conversation. Before any application is accepted, we talk — to make sure the room is right for you and you’re right for the room.
Important: United by Design provides coaching, education, and accountability. It is not a substitute for licensed therapy, mental health treatment, legal advice, or medical care. If you or your partner are experiencing crisis, abuse, or symptoms of a mental health condition, please contact a licensed professional or local emergency services.